Work your way through these questions slowly as they may bring up difficult memories for you.

 

If you need support, reach out to the group!

 

  1. Did you ever see your parents in the nude? What were your feelings?
  2. Did you ever see your parents having sex? What were your feelings?
  3. In every family, a child usually has chores assigned. What were your chores? Were they fair? Could you do them in such a way that your parents were pleased?
  4. Did your parents ever seem to like your friends more than you?
  5. Did your friends ever seem to like your parents more than you?
  6. Did you have any bad experiences at Sunday school? If so what were they?
  7. Did you ever have any bad experiences at summer camp, school clubs etc? If so what were they?
  8. Did your appearance, look, dress embarrass you? Did you feel different from your class mates?
  9. Did your parents want a child of the opposite sex when they had you? Did they name you or dress you to match the sex of their choice?
  10. Write down any childhood memories that were/are painful
  11. Which one of the above questions about childhood was the toughest to answer? Do you know why?