Work your way through these questions slowly as they may bring up difficult memories for you.

 

If you need support, reach out to the group!

 

  1. What kind of relationship did your mother have with her parents?
  2. What kind of relationship did your father have with his parents?
  3. Were you wanted at birth? Write about circumstances of the family at the time of your birth, things such as family size, childhood, age differences or financial status
  4. Was there laughter in your family, Anger, Depression, Addiction?
  5. Were other relatives or family members living with you?
  6. In general describe what your family thought of you.
  7. What age were you at the birth of your siblings? How did you feel about the new arrival?
  8. Were either of your parents sick enough to need hospitalisation?
  9. Were you separated from any important family members?
  10. Was there any fear or guilt about this separation? In other words did you feel responsible?
  11. Were you threatened by the bogeyman or the devil if you misbehaved? If so, what were your fears in relation to this?
  12. Were you afraid of the dark?
  13. Were you afraid to fight? Or were you afraid not to fight due to parental or society and peer pressure?
  14. How did your parents punish you? Did they try to reason? Or was it physical, emotional, sexual?
  15. How did you react to punishment?